My DH's nephew was abroad for a while. He met someone there and decided to get married back home. She would travel with her parents to meet him and his family, where a small engagement ceremony would take place. My SIL arranged a small gathering. She did not invite anyone from her family apart from my husband. The other side were a bigger crowd but DH's nephew was with his parents, brother and uncle (my DH). Well I wasn't invited, neither were SIL's DH's siblings. We were not really told about the gathering properly. SIL and her family travelled to the capital during midweek and my DH was told to travel for the weekend because the girlfriend's uncle wanted to meet him (bizarre!). Anyway one day before the engagement, which took place at the girlfriend's relatives house my husband was asked to prepare for a short speech. I was so upset when he told me that and asked to give him ideas for the speech. I am so annoyed with my SIL for arranging this gathering with my DH and not inviting me. She says she did not know what the GF's family would be like and was not sure that the gathering would happen 100%. Therefore she did not invite anyone other than my DH. She did not even apologise for not inviting me. My DH agrees that she did nothing wrong. He says this was not planned in advance which I find difficult to believe as SIL had bought engagement rings before travelling. I would have wanted to be there and witness my husband making a speech. Our 13 year old daughter was actually in tears when she found out. This was a family event and I think we should have been there as a family. If they didn't want us there then my DH should not have been there either. AIBU?
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