Had another thread about DSs school but now it's another issue
Ds tells me from time to time x,y,z happens (throwing his cap around, or just general playground stuff) . I have a few children and it all seems relatively normal to me, I don't go charging into the school or whatever .
So, ds comes home win a nasty bruise on his leg and says X (head boy - mums head of the PTA too) had kicked him on purpose. Alongside some 11+ "confusion" where he was taken out of 11+ practise because the school assumed he wasn't taking it, whereas he was taking it but had never informed me that they took it in the school. This was the day before his exam and the whole class was laughing at him saying he wasn't good enough to take the exam.
Anyway, the head was waiting by the door on Friday for me and asked to see me. I went up and she said ds had done something very serious - he had blocked a younger boy (moved to the right as they moved to the left etc) and in the end the boys had bumped his head on the door frame (think he was coming out of the toilet ?) an accident form was completed as it was a "head injury" and Ds was asked not to return the next day as he "couldn't be trusted". I agreed to this (obviously messing around isn't good) but when I pointed out what has happened over the past few weeks to Ds she said it was "investigated". However they have never even spoke to my Ds about the bruise . They always deny all knowledge of anything I tell them (apparently they never knew he was sitting his 11+ despite me several times discussing it with them etc etc.)
Now I have a meeting tomorrow about my Ds "behaviour" when it was me who raised concerns about then telling him to clean up his own vomit one day, allowing my ex to have my email address etc.
And she keeps telling me how big a deal it is having to take time from her day to see me tomorrow morning , how another teacher had to leave their class etc.
I feel like they are trying to turn everything round on my Ds suddenly when the spotlight is on them - I had overheard the office staff apologising to someone who she had insulted via email (she had written something rude about the person and forgot to delete it before sending) so I realise now it's not just me, it's their whole attitude (they make sarky emails and calls to me).
Is the school BU? (Again !)
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Ds excluded from school for an accident, but his own bruises were never dealt with....
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isitmeorthem12 · 09/10/2016 12:11
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