I have been friends with my friend since we started secondary school together, so many (!) years. I think she's always been quite prone to being a bit sullen and negative but just lately it's really bothering me and I don't know why.
She had her first baby, a little boy, six months ago and I think I first started noticing it then. She was pregnant over the summer and I know (believe me) how wiped out and fed up early pregnancy makes you feel as I was exactly the same but she just kept complaining about 'not having done' anything with her summer, even though she'd had two UK breaks and had been to Italy.
Over the course of the last year, she's had her baby and moved to a gorgeous home yet it's like nothing is enough. She focuses and complains relentlessly about tiny things without considering the bigger picture. Like - the garden is so big it's hard to mow, the house needs painting, she doesn't want to go back to work. I know a little moan about all the above is fair enough but like I say it's just relentless.
I also feel really unsupported, because I really have had some shit thrown at me over the last two and a half years yet it just gets lost in complaints about traffic jams and colds.
I feel horrible and disloyal but AIBU?
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tabbykittensmiaow · 07/10/2016 17:17
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