My DPs cousin has shacked up with her best friends H. Longggg back story but over the past two months or so the truth has actually come out. She deliberately destroyed her marriage (her DH was apparently crazy but turns out his problem was her being too close to her friends DH and his paranoia was bang on the money) and she's been sleeping with him for a long time - at least a year before he left his wife - HER BEST FRIEND. They also live on the same cul de sac and she's sitting back and watching the bastard ignore his own DC whilst preventing her exh from having a good relationship with her DC. Half of DPs family are all 'oh it's about time you found the one' and 'glad you're so happy' and the other half are secretly steaming with her because of what selfish cunts the pair of them are being (mostly about the emotional turmoil to the children)
Every time we have a family dinner or something she turns the convo round to how people have turned against her for falling in love and what a victim she is. one of her children actually KNEW that the slimeball was sneaking out with her mum and was kept quiet somehow. Disgusted doesn't even come close.
I want to scream. My sister lost her husband to a 'friend' (I know it takes two but the betrayal of the life long friend hurt her most) and DPs cousin actually had the cheek slag off my ex BIL during an Easter family party - while she was shagging her best friends husband and deliberately sabotaging her dcs family to make herself look better.
I'm trying really hard to bite my tongue but I'm sick to fucking death of her trying to discuss it with me and my dp.
WIBU to tell her I'm not surprised people hate the pair of them and the fact their behaviour is hurting several young DC makes me sick to my stomach? My dp shares my opinion but he's so laid back he's practically horizontal. I don't want to punish my soon to be MIL by avoiding gatherings she organises but this is grinding my gears something chronic!!
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icanthavepityforsnakes · 05/10/2016 21:00
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