My 4yo DS is a Summer boy and just started reception. The teacher pulled me aside saying that she's concerned about DS, about pretty much everything: speech, understanding, gross motor skills, fine motor skills, socialising. He has a minor speech delay, but keeps making progress (he's bilingual). He's shy in front of new situations, he will take him a while to get used to the school environment. He's been going to nursery since he was 6mo. The nursery had no concerns over him (just the speech, but evidently never though that it was bad enough to refer him). He's sociable, but takes him a while. Had lots of mates at nursery. He's not very confident perhaps. She didn't say the word autism, but she was asking questions about his socialising as he plays a lot on his own and with the same toys.
For all these reasons, AIBU to think that she shouldn't have voiced all of these concerns in front of him? Why try to work hard on his confidence and this is not going to help him. He hasn't done anything wrong except being himself (I would feel different if he smacked another student, for example, in which case it's ok for me to have a chat in front of him).
I have no problem with the teacher telling me about her concerns, but I'm upset he was there to hear about this.
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Frarling · 03/10/2016 16:37
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