Hi all I have a very good friend who I see everyday due to our two children being similar ages. (10 and 3) I have known her for around 15 years since she moved in next door to me. Her husband over the last few years is doing very well at his job and they have finally got a very comfortable lifestyle after struggling for years. I am genuinely pleased for her. However since they have had more financial stability she like to talk about how much money they earn, how their skiing holidays cost 7000 pounds, how they have wangled it so they don't pay proper tax etc etc. These conversations are constant I even get text messages saying they he has had a bonus or a pay rise and how she's already bought a 40 grand car despite not having passed her driving test. She never really listens to anything I say without interrupting to talk about herself.
Also she competes regarding our children which is getting me down.
I'm not a materialistic person at all and whilst I'm pleased that she is financially better off it seems to be all she talks about.
She used to be a truly lovely person and I really value her as a friend but this constant one up manship is getting me down. I try not to fuel the fire and never discuss finances but the constant competition is endless, any advice on how to deal with it !
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IrishTwin · 03/10/2016 15:30
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