I don't even know where to start but I have to write it down because it's becoming unbearable for me at work. The office politics are at an all time high and I need a way out.
Back story - Me and DH work for same company (but not same office) and have limited contact at work. His best friend at work (let's call him Greg) and a new girl in our office (Tess) have started sleeping together. Greg has told DH and Tess has told me. It's supposed to be a huge secret, but believe me, it isn't everyone knows.
Greg has a long term gf who we have all met and all really like. He openly talks about her often when visiting our office (he's constantly between offices). So naturally I thought Tess knew. But she didn't and when we got talking about it she got really upset and feels v. betrayed, hurt, etc. She had it out with Greg who now seems to have poisoned the entire office against me as a liar(?) and a stir and a gossip. When in reality, at my age and in my department it couldn't be further from the truth.
Now day by day, the bitching is getting worse. Tess and her friend(s) are sniggering, bitching, commenting (loudly) about me and this has never happened to me before. It honestly reminds me of being back in high school which I hate.
I have been ignoring everything, not engaging with her, him or anyone else involved and getting on with my work until today when yet another slight on me caused me to lose my cool and shout at her.
How can I stop all this and how can I get away from the situation? It's making me miserable and affecting my actual work.
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officebairn · 29/09/2016 16:26
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