Well perhaps not an easy life but to want one where I am as far as I can be in control of my enviroment and activities. In part this desire for an easy, peaceful life has lead me to decide against motherhood (I am married). I gave up a high status but stressful and frustrating career when everyone thought I was mad. I quit facebook, I let various people go from my life because they were just not worth it i.e. high drama, emotionally draining etc.
I feel like I have a very decluttered life and generally just do what I enjoy and only see people I really like. I felt when I was younger I was always working, striving etc to get to a place where I would have time, space and peace but after every drama or big project there was always another round the corner meaning I never got the life I wanted.
I like the way I live now and feel in control of things but sometimes I wonder if I just don't like doing anything hard and unpleasent. I think at one point I probably was burned out and avoided all stress. I think life does need challenges but I just hate the thought of taking on too much and getting sucked into that way of life again.
Is it so bad to want an easy life?
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misspetticoat · 29/09/2016 01:09
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