My sister lives abroad and has just had her first baby. Months ago when she was still pregnant we arranged that I would visit them next month to meet the baby. Flights were dirt cheap and I'll be staying with her. I have a good friend who lives there too so I can also catch up with her. I've really been looking forward to it. I don't go out much or do anything really as life is busy these days. She comes home a lot but I haven't been over to her in about 3 years.
Asked DH at the time of booking if it was ok with him, as we have 3 under 8 and he will have to take two days off work. He said it was fine. I'm booked to go Wednesday evening to Sunday morning.
Now, a few weeks beforehand he is going mad and saying I should cancel. He is busy in work at the moment (unforeseen) and thinks we've too much going on in general. I said I'd arrange childcare (family) so he doesn't need to take time off work but he said it's the mornings and evenings that are hard which I agree with in fairness. But I did two evenings, bedtimes etc on my own last week as he was out straight from work at work events and I managed, even though I too was busy in work & totally exhausted.
Also FIL just booked an anniversary mass commemorating MIL's death for the same weekend so I will miss it. Big family event and DH will have to bring the 3 DC, without me. Finally it turns out my sister is coming home for an extended period about a month after my trip so he says I can see them then.
I think he's being an asshole. He thinks I'm being selfish.
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whoisright58 · 28/09/2016 20:57
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