Clearly I don't think IABU else I wouldn't be posting here but I've not been working for long and I wanted to get other people's opinions on whether my boss's behaviour is normal
I started a new job about six months ago and at first it was great because my boss is very keen to teach me new things (he's very senior and at the end of his career whereas I'm just beginning mine). I think his expectations have become unreasonable though.
For example I had completed a piece of work for him before going away on a weeks break - I got back in on the Monday morning to an email asking me to join him for a meeting with the client regarding this piece of work at 10am that day. What he didn't tell me (until we were in the car on the way to the meeting) was that he was expecting me to lead it. Now if I'd been given even an hours notice that would have been tough but a good opportunity for me. As it was, I didn't do very well. After the meeting he jokes that I'm not on form after going on holiday .
He is also in the habit of springing questions on me as little tests which I do my best to answer but he's impossible to satisfy unless the answer is exactly the answer he would have given. For example, if I give the technically correct answer but can't remember the appropriate reference then that's not good enough.
I love my work but I hate working with him. I don't know if I'm just being too sensitive and need to "man up" or if I should start looking for something else, which won't be easy because I'm not in the UK and visas are difficult. I only got this job/visa because someone did me a favor.
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To think my boss is an a-hole
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SplendidPanda · 27/09/2016 14:12
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