Ok so here's the deal, my next door neighbours are a big boisterous family of teenage boys and a single mam, there's a teenage girl with a baby who lives there too but not sure of relation. The oldest boy is training to be a mechanic (good for him!) so has cars and car parts all over the drive which spills into the street. They often have a group men aged in their early - mid twenties drinking beer and hanging over their (and by default my) fence. This doesn't bother me, I don't feel threatened by them and they are always perfectly polite. My dh is a bit spooked by them but it doesn't affect his life in any way so it's a non issue (he once had one of them call his slippers 'girls slippers' when he put the bins out but it's hardly a hanging offence).
We had an issue with them last year where they didn't clean their drain and it flooded dirty bath water over our front step and when we approached them about this (very politely) the mother lied to my face first saying it was our drain (?) then saying it was the councils drain and I needed to contact them. Then she started to cry and say that she's recently had a heart attack due to stress and that me politely knocking on her door and asking her to clean a drain so I didn't walk through her dirty bath water every time I went into my house was causing her to feel poorly. The drain was cleaned later in the afternoon by the oldest boy and no more was said.
Ok so to the dog (sorry about long post but don't want to drip feed)
The dog is a beautiful young huskey not a puppy but still boisterous. It used to jump over our fence and dig up our garden but we paid for a higher fence (even though theirs is a council property and looking at the deeds it's on their side and technically is their responsibility) and this stopped the issue of the dog coming in our garden, HOWEVER now it howls aaaaaaaaaaaaaaall the time. It's such a heartbreakingly sad sound, it's a proper wolf howl and it's constant. I have never known them to take it out and it must be so bored, Huskies need a lot of stimulation!
My first instinct is to offer to walk it myself, I have the time to do this and I have an afternoon walk anyway so it wouldn't be an issue but it's a BIG dog and if it's not been out much I can't imagine it'll be well socialised. Also what would I do if it ran away? But someone? Got injured? Would I be liable???
The next option is to report them but they would know that was me and though I'm not threatened by them now I certainly wouldn't want them to turn as I have seen some of the lads that hang outside the house being very aggressive with people.
I actually think this might be a what would you do, rather than an Aibu, so what would you do???
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Maxwellthecat · 26/09/2016 13:17
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