I have had a friend for over four years. We meet when both had young babies of the same age. We used to meet most weeks and seemed geniuely close. Going out just us in the evening so it seemed we was friends - not just based around the kids.
Since the kids started nursery we saw each other without them - every month or so.
This year she has cancelled 75% of our meet ups last minute. She was always a bit flakey but out if the last four meet ups, she has cancelled three.
So I am guessing I was seeing her as a friend but she was seeing it as based on the kids. I presume they have new play mates and therefore she has new friends. Our kids started school this term.
AIBU to decline future meet ups presuming that will just cancel last minute anyway? Since April she has cancelled all but one!
I know I'm being taken for a mug - but I'm too polite!
Tell me I'm a doormat! I don't know what to say to her any more. I feel like I should ask her what's up, but that will lead to met up to explain - that gets cancelled - urgh!
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AIBU?
To not meet up with my friend again?
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2boysnamedR · 26/09/2016 09:28
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