Ok I don't want to sound like a crazy person but this irks me.
My DP is a lovely man and I love him very much but more and more I've begun noticing a big (for me anyway) issue in communication between us, it doesn't always happen but when it does it just makes me wonder what's going through his head to do that?
E.g. Yesterday evening he informed me he's going for a run this morning and then will come back and take DC for a little bit so I can have some time to do whatever I need to do.
All good until this morning when I asked him what route he's doing he told me he's meeting his football team 40mins away (we live in the middle of nowhere) and they're doing a 5K run as a part of training!
Don't get me wrong I don't mind him doing that but with what he said yesterday I assumed he was just going for a run as in "leave the house and run round the block" kind of thing and be back within the hour or so. The 5K will probably take 2-3hours after he's done the travelling and it's just frustrating because if I didn't ask him about it this morning he would've gone without telling me and I would've been wondering what happened to him as I would've been expecting him to be back ages ago.
This is not the first time something like this has happened by the way, sometimes when I've been asking him about something he's done unless you're EXTREMELY specific he'll dodge the question/not include XYZ in the answer. Again, I trust him and he's not really ever given me a reason not to trust him and he just gets cheeky/jokey about it later once I find out but it just winds me up, he's lovely in all other aspects but AIBU to expect better communication from his side?
I was a bit this morning when I found out where he was running and he got defensive and said he doesn't have to go if I don't want him to but I said it's not about that, I don't mind him going but I would have liked him to be more specific as naturally since he didn't say much else yesterday I assumed he was just going for a morning jog etc.
So just a general AIBU?
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twocultures · 24/09/2016 10:30
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