Ds is 3.5
He has chin length curly brown hair. He loves it.
He has 2 older sisters.
Ds is very into diggers and dinosaurs and cars.
But he loves pink and turquoise clothes, hair clips and sparkles.
His sisters regularly 'do' his hair and make up. He chooses to either dress as a dinosaur or a princess.
I have let him do whatever he wants. I am pretty sure he is just copying his sisters (who had much clearer views of their identity than ds does)
But ds nursery and a couple of my friends have recently told me the following
'I'm worried about your son'
'It's time to cut his hair I think!'
'If you bought him clothes in boys colours it would be easier for him'
'He needs to learn to play with the boys, he's too sensitive'
And suddenly, I'm at a loss. What age is too 'old' to let ds do what he wants? Should I help him to comply with traditional gender expectations? Am I stifling him? Should I be pointing out what other boys do and wear?
He is very aware he is a boy, but prefers girls.
Dh is quite a quiet man and we have no living fathers, so ds does not have much of a masculine influence in his life.
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AIBU?
To let my son dress how he likes?
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Fettuccinecarbonara · 23/09/2016 17:41
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