My DS is 3 and has just started nursery. I picked him up from nursery today with my DH and DD and walked him home. On the way home we stopped at the local shop and my DH and DS went in when I waited outside with my DD in her pram as the shop is quite small.
When I was waiting one of the Grandads came with his GD who is 3 as she is in my sons nursery class and her 10 month old brother in his pushchair. I def know that they are the ages of the kids as I've spoken to the mum and her children are both born the same months as mine are. He parked the pushchair outside the shop and told his GD to look after her brother and he wouldn't be a minute and he would pop in and get her the sweets she had asked for. He then went in the shop and left the two children outside.
Now the shop was quite busy and so I knew he would be a little while and you can not see through the window in the shop as it is covered by promotions and so there is absolutely no visibility. He didn't ask me to watch them (although he doesn't know me anyway) and during the time I was waiting for my DH and DS he didn't pop his head out once which must have been a good 5 minutes.
When my DH and DS came out we hung around for a couple of minutes until he came back to ensure the children were ok which they were!
AIBU in thinking they should not be left on their own for this length of time completely unsupervised and by a road? They were around 5 metres away from the road (which gets quite busy during school pick up times). I don't know if I'm being a little precious but I wouldn't dream of leaving my children in that situation. I do understand that the shop gets busy and is very small however and so it is a hassle taking a big buggy in there although you can do so if need be. I don't think I should say anything to the mum as I only met her a couple of weeks ago when they started school and although she seems lovely I don't know whether she deems this acceptable?!
Just for full clarity the mum and dad were working today and I am assuming it was their grandad from his age and the fact I know he lives local although I have never seen him previously.
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Tobyturtle · 20/09/2016 18:30
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