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My family - is this taking the piss ?

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Pisssssedofff Thu 15-Sep-16 20:22:39

So younger sister basically got ignore by our father growing up, she moved abroad he never wrote to her, sent birthday or Christmas presents, saying that I stayed with him and my mother didn't do much more aside of photos occasionally. This is all before FB remember.
DF then did something quite frankly unforgivable at my wedding so Dsis made the decision she wouldn't give him
The chance to do the same to her.
I decided last after 12 years of not speaking I couldn't be arsed any more, I love my step mum and step sisters so was only missing out on them by keeping the silent treatment going. There was no apology by DF for his twattery but whatever.
So he comes over to see me and the kids last week and spends three hours lamenting about how his misses Dsis, doesn't know what he's done to deserve it etc etc.
I said to him basically you know where she is, if you want to get in touch it's not impossible, it's down to you.
Aibu though to think what the fuck ?
He's been a complete shit to both of us, he's darn lucky really either of us talk to him but she's the one he's all heart broken over 😳
Dsis and I get on great, talk all the time and she wouldn't piss in him if he was on fire

Dilligaf81 Fri 16-Sep-16 01:22:32

Parents always do this to the child that's there. If your dsis had got in touch with him he'd be talking abour you to her.
My dad is an arse who I haven't seen or spoken to for 17 years. I have children he wil never meet, a great hubby he will never meet but my sis has started seeing him, going on holiday with him etc. She has shown him my wedding pictures and ones of my children. I'm gutted, he doesn't deserve it and says to her about me even though we will never meet again.
I also don't speak to my sister anymore...families hey!

Pisssssedofff Fri 16-Sep-16 07:33:42

Thank you, glad it's not just our loons !!

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