My brother and sister-in-law expecting first baby. Brother is a contractor and current job has taken him overseas, so he has taken unpaid leave to come to the UK from UAE to be here for birth and spend a few weeks (all they can afford) with SIL and new baby.
Whole family very excited and pleased for them. This sounds ridiculous but here goes. Sis in law is set on a name that my brother really hates. He has come up with over 50 suggestions for alternatives but she says that's the name she wants because she already told her mum and her mum has embroidered a blanket with this name.
I have tried to stay out of it but tbh I'm not a massive fan of the name either, it's a very unusual name and could easily be shortened to something not pleasant. Sis-in-law isn't English so bro has tried to explain English slang and say that perhaps not wisest name choice, but she isn't budging.
It's her baby but also my bros and she rejected the names he really liked straight away so yesterday, he asked if I'd do some internet research and send him a list of names that he could suggest to SIL.
Anyway, today he tried to run through the suggestions with her and she said, "if that is the list your sister sent them I'm not interested - my baby isn't having a western name". Bro had not even read them out to her and she rejected them outright. She also told him that he should be his own man and not just do what his sister says which is bloody unfair because I haven't actually said a word about the name and only made the list after I was asked. Am really annoyed but she's heavily pregnant and don't want to add fuel to her theory that I'm interfering. Feel sorry for bro as she is giving him the silent treatment. AIBU to think that of course it's her baby, but bros opinion should matter on this too?
Either way I won't say anything to her, just wanted to vent!
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DeadDuckFace · 14/09/2016 21:32
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