So my husbands promised to give up smoking several times, managed it once for a few months but that's it. He promised he would stop before our wedding but didn't, then he promised he'd stop before our first child was born and after the baby came he hid the fact that he hadn't stopped for several months until he was caught out. I'm so sick of it, I used to smoke so I do understand it's hard but I've had enough now. Our baby is almost one and he still smokes away then grumps about changing his clothes before he holds the baby. I've snapped tonight as I've done a load of baby washing and he's outside smoking right next to it instead of down the side of the house so I've had to wash it all again. It's not the money or the principle I just want him around for as long as possible for me and our baby. It kills me that he doesn't seem to care. If I pester him about it he gets all defensive but if I say nothing he just merrily carries on so I'm stuck between a rock and a hard place. AIBU? How would you handle this?
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Jizzomelette ·
14/09/2016 23:59
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