My boyfriend and I are due our first baby in January, it was unplanned and a big shock for us both. He's come to terms with it and is looking forward to being a dad but I think hes also worried about losing his freedom etc which is normal.
Anyway, he keeps talking about how him and his friends were discussing holidays to Croatia/Ibiza next summer. At first i didnt take much notice because I thought it was just talk but now he talks about it more and more? First of all, there's no way he can afford all these, not with a new baby! Secondly, my mum and extended family have booked a nice house for a week down south next July and invited us to come too, but hes complaining about how he only gets so many holidays a year etc etc (in other words he's not coming.)
AIBU to think that going away with friends for week at a time just after his baby is born shouldn't be a priority? I imagine he would rather go on a party holiday with friends than a low key family holiday, but it would be with his new son/me so should that not take priority?
Sorry for the rambling and thanks in advance!!
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To think partner shouldn't be going on hols with friends summer after baby is born?
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pinkglasgow23 · 13/09/2016 22:18
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