I actually feel a bit of a knob writing this -I know that I need to get a grip but I'm struggling! DD (just turned 11) has recently started secondary school. She is confident, kind and happy girl, very sure of herself, not afraid to speak up or of what people think of her. She is also very happy in her own company. She likes her friends, but will sometimes choose to sit alone/eat lunch alone etc. This is a choice and she seems (like me I suppose) to enjoy being alone and peaceful. She says she is enjoying school. The problem is me! I think I remember school too well-ours was a pit of bullying and social standing and was miserable for a lot of people. I was luckily amongst the popular crowd, but I feel such anxiety about my DD making friends and being happy. I could literally feel my heart breaking this morning when I dropped her off at the bus stop and she was standing alone with her headphones on with everyone else chatting away. I'm really not like this usually, I happily send mine off on trips and camps, but secondary has made me wobbly. How do I get a grip? Has anyone else had this or had a child that is happy to be a loner?
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TheWitTank · 13/09/2016 08:20
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