Back story, DD9 has been attending a local
Gymnastics class. The teacher very quickly
Singled her out as being quite talented. She suggested that she could train to competition standard. However this is not available locally. The teacher travels to a city about 45 mins away every Sunday and teaches there for 6 hours. The teacher takes another local girl and offered to take DD9 also. I have other children so couldn't commit myself to take her and this arrangement was fine and working. We drop her around 9am at the teachers house with a packed lunch and pick her up around 5pm. Whenever I have dropped her off/picked her up there has been a group of kids knocking around her house. Around 12-14 years old and being borderline anti-social. Fighting with each other and kicking doors, for sale signs etc. I wait in my car with the doors locked for my Daughter to arrive back. This is relevant.
Yesterday they arrived back a little early and EXP was picking her up. When he arrived they were waiting outside. This morning I have had a text from gymnastics teacher:
"Hi Fizzing. I'm very sorry for this text. My husband couldn't find his wallet from yesterday. He knew definitely where he left. I don't think anything bad, but I would like just ask you. Maybe when "DD" left my house it was accidentally dropped down into her backpack ? Could you have a look please. Sorry for this again...xx"
I'm furious and don't know if IABU? It sounds like an accusation yet I am sure she feels awkward asking. My daughter would never take anything. It is more likely
One of the anti social kids that are at her house daily. I have said I will look in my answer to her, but don't know what to do next. DD loves going and I know if I ask her anything about it, she would be put off going and give up gymnastics. But it's is also very awkward now. EXP has checked anyway and confirmed its not there. I haven't text her back yet other than to say I will look. Should I wait until the end of the day and hope that it turns up and she lets me know? Any advice on how to handle this? I am too upset to see the situation clearly. AIBU to be upset or did she have to ask? Thanks in advance
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fizzingmum · 12/09/2016 09:26
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