I'm expecting baby number 2, has been a massive shock to me, we were definitely not planning. My DC1 is 13 months and we didn't want a baby until they were about 3.
I've decided I don't want every Tom, Dick and Harry knowing until a few weeks or at least my 12 week scan. I've told my mum and that's it. My DH told his parents today.
Here's the thing...SIL has tried for a baby for 11 years and has never succeeded until now. She is now 22 weeks gone with her first healthy pregnancy, of course everyone is over the moon for her. Mil asked if DH had told his sister yet and he said not yet. When we were saying goodbyes today with in laws mil said in a worried, shaky voice with a bit of a grin on her face 'yeah well you can be the one to tell her'. When I was pregnant last time she slipped into a depression because it was me and Not her, I could understand her pain at the time but it had a bad effect on her parents. But now she's pregnant herself and is over half way so I didn't get why mil was saying things in that tone. To top things off mil didn't even say congratulations, she said most things like you'll have your hands full and asked how far gone I was etc, but not the normal congrats or I'm happy for you escaped her mouth. Fil did say how pleased he was for us.
My mum said we shouldn't tell SIL for another good few weeks as its stealing her thunder. I'm not in a desperate hurry to tell anyone and would rather wAit but DH wants to tell her. What do you think?
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Safarichick · 11/09/2016 20:13
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