I'm having the morning from hell. I got up at half 7 to get on with some work (I'm a teacher). The moment my four year old came down the stairs, she has tantrummed. Even when doing a nice activity it has ended in screaming and eventually me and H screaming at each other.
I've worked non-stop all week, in at half 8, three meetings, worked until between 6-7, taken work home every night,
And this is after spending the first week of hols in work, and countless days doing paperwork at home (planning, resourcing, getting SEN stuff together, printing labels, etc.)
Of course DD doesn't understand why I have to do this first otherwise it just won't get done.
H does do a lot (mostly cooking and dishes) but weekends always consist of him sitting about unless I prompt that something needs doing and asking what we are going to do (as in a day out). And there are some things that don't even register. For example, every morning I'm the one doing breakfast, tooth brushing, helping to dress, doing hair, checking school lunch, letters, money, books, kit, etc. then picking up coffee cups left about, not to mention running kit, towels, razors, etc.
This weekend I have planning to redraft for week after next as very busy next weekend, an assignment for a qualification to do, 14(!) bloody articles to read by Tuesday for large project I'm part of (only sent last night!), data sets and terms and conditions to look through, IEPs, a handbook to review, resources to complete.
I feel like if I'm doing enough in work then I'm neglecting my home, family and health. If I'm doing lots with family then I'm falling behind with work. So now I can't concentrate on reading, can't see for crying to mark effectively and feel like the world's worst parent/partner. And on here instead of getting something done!!!
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monkeysee100 · 10/09/2016 09:40
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