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to think my pregnancy isn't my exs business?

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ncforthisone1234 Thu 08-Sep-16 13:35:57

NC because I nced and forgot my original name !

My Ds told me ex I'm pregnant - in between messages about him not being able to have contact this weekend he slipped in " by the way, finding out you are pregnant via ds isn't the best way"


Is it really his business ??? Or is it the norm to tell exs? I left him 5 years ago (into a refuge) and want as little ties with him obviously as possible. Or is my anger towards him clouding my judgement? Should I have told him? (I don't get maintenance for me only dc sporadically, I paid him off to get the divorce through and don't expect anything from him in terms of long term help or finances. He also married someone with a dc and had another dc)

Mybeardeddragonjustdied2016 Thu 08-Sep-16 13:38:21

Just tell him you finding out he was an arse hole after you were married wasn't OK for you. Its none of his business. . As long as your ds is OK about it he can feck off!

SandyY2K Thu 08-Sep-16 13:40:02

Ignoring him would be my option. It's not his concern.

Don't even react to the the message.

ncforthisone1234 Thu 08-Sep-16 13:43:32

I already replied that I didn't realise it was his business and that he needs to keep out of my personal life as it's creepy.

He has an opinion about everything I do and it's been years - divorce is amazing.

BarbarianMum Thu 08-Sep-16 13:46:01

I think in a 'healthy' post-divorce relationship it would be something you'd tell the other parent yourself. Doesn't sound like the two of you have a 'healthy' relationships though - abuse does that.

runslikethewind Thu 08-Sep-16 14:00:05

Nice reply to his text op. Your right it's none of his concern, just keep up the polite one liners to keep him in his place and try not to get drawn in to a conversation about anything with him.

t4nut Thu 08-Sep-16 14:10:26

Yup nicely put in his place.

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