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To be avoiding people

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OurMiracle1106 Wed 07-Sep-16 19:24:18

My son was adopted 3 years ago. I've now just found out 2 of my flat mates girlfriends are pregnant one of my best friends is and the other has just become a grandmother

So I've been trying to avoid the babies when I'm feeling low such as yesterday (first day of term and really missing my son)

It also now seems that everyone feels to ask when I am going to have one. Hard enough with my son being adopted but worse when I suffer from fertility issues and might never get pregnant again

So aibu to avoid these people when it all feels too much for me to deal with or should i suck it up?

Birdsgottafly Wed 07-Sep-16 19:41:44

Perfectly reasonable to remove yourself from situations, to be able to cope.

Did you get any after care or counselling. Do you feel that you need any type of support, now that time has passed?

OurMiracle1106 Wed 07-Sep-16 19:59:20

I've sought psychotherapy and have an appointment on Monday to go.

I was struggling before if im honest so hopefully I am making steps to get the right help. I spent over 2 years in various counselling/therapy

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