I have 3 dd's. 3,7 and 9. The 3 year old has her own room and sleeps like a dream .
I am a nurse and work shifts, on a late shift I'm not home until after 11 pm and dh is in charge of bedtime. He reports he has no problems and they do exactly as they are told.
When I'm not working, the two older girls are pains in the arse at bed time. They'll go up no problem and settle but after about 20 minutes the up and down shit starts.....wanting a drink, wanting the toilet, wanting light on, wanting light off........
Monday night the 9 year old was at it until after 11. To the point where I had enough and had to ban her from leaving her room, even though she was quite upset.
Dh has told me he think I handled it wrong. That she was nervous of school and misses me so much when I work that she is just looking to be with me, that I should of sat in the room with her! But I strongly think that bedtimes routine need to be structured, and sitting in the room until the fall asleep just send Wright at this age. Am i doing it all wrong!
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throwsandshows · 07/09/2016 10:21
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