I posted this in weddings but no replies so thought I'd post here for traffic.
My 1st AIBU but it's more of a WWYD?
Please be kind.
My DP and I have been engaged for a couple of years, we are finally in a position to start planning our wedding after my grandad left me some money.
Chatting through the guest list and I list off my exP and his family, I thought nothing of it.
He is the father of my DD, we were young when we had her and I have been with my DP for more of her life than I was with her dad. Anyway, we git in well most of the time, I like his new DP and I'm still close with his family. His sister and I are very good friends (in fact she will be invited to the ceremony and the others will only be invited to the reception). We still go to BBQs at their house and birthday celebrations etc. And I often pop in for a tea when I drop off/collect DD.
I have chatted to a few people about our plans and the guest list has come up. They all say it's weird and that I shouldn't be involving my ex and his family in my future. The past should stay in the past etc. But I still think of them all as my extended family.
I should also add (before I get shot down) that my DP is completely fine with them all coming, he gets on with my ex well and they parent my DD as a team which I love!
When I listed them off DP didn't even bat an eyelid, even suggested we invite ex and his DP to the ceremony (which I don't want to do as its a small ceremony)
So WWYD?
Is is weird? And are my friends right that I should be leaving the past in the past?
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Mybugslife · 06/09/2016 15:36
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