My DD is almost 7mo and is a generally ready happy and content little thing. She was waking up only once in the night until around 4 months when she added in an extra feed... then another one... then another one... now she's up 5 or 6+ times in the night I'm breastfeeding and have always fed her back to sleep at each wake up. I've probably made one of these rods for my own back I've been hearing so much about. Currently trying to wean, but doing BLW as she won't accept a spoon, and progress is incredibly slow, she's eating barely anything. She won't accept a bottle either. Haven't tried dummy. She's been in her own room for a couple of weeks, seems really happy in her cot, and had the same waking behaviours when she was in a side car crib with us.
I've been largely on autopilot during the nights, just getting on with it. I'm actually pretty good on very little sleep, whereas my DH is not. He works a ~1hr motorway drive away in a fairly full-on job and leaves the house around 7:15am. So I've had no problem being the nighttime person until now.
In the last week or so DD has been waking more and settling less, even with feeding. It's really starting to get me down, not really due to my own tiredness, more because DD gets so upset with it, and I can't seem to settle her any other way than feeding and I'm worried it'll be like this forever. I've had to send my DH in to rock/settle her a couple of times this week. If we try to settle her without feeding she goes ballistic, and even if I give in and feed her it'll take around 20min of my husband rocking her to get her back to sleep (if I try to do it she'll never settle). DH says he's ok and not tired with it at the moment, but that'll change if it goes on much longer. The last few nights, for example, he's had to get up and rock her once each night for around 20min.
AIBU for needing my husband to help out with settling during the night when he has to work? She's up fussing at the moment, has been since 5am, and the sound of her crying is like a chainsaw in my head, I can't bare it. I've already fed her, nappy isn't dirty, room isn't too hot, etc etc. I'm usually really relaxed about this kind of stuff but I feel like I'm losing it. My DH, while obviously not enjoying getting up in the night, doesn't mind getting involved, but his default is 'she must be hungry'... She can't possibly be!
I have less sleep now than I did when she was a newborn, so any tips or advice phase send them my way! I don't want to co-sleep and I won't let her cry. Thank you!
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LittleSausageFingers · 03/09/2016 06:30
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