My best friend of 10+ years is having a really difficult time, her mother has been diagnosed with cancer (terminally ill now and living with her), she is taking care of her newborn, and today she heard that she might loose her job (maternity leave just about to end).
She lives in another EU country.
I want to go and visit here as soon as possible. Usually when I visit her, DH stays here with the DTs (2yo), which is fine with him. This is mostly because of travel costs, and also he knows I will spend the whole time catching up with her, gossiping, giggling, etc. and he'd rather stay home.
My friend is one of my DT's godmother. I think she would like it if this time I brought her with me. WIBU to go with one child and leave the other one with DH?
Pros: I won't need to buy another train ticket as she can travel on my lap, and one DC won't be too much trouble for my friend. DH and I get to spend quality time with one twin, not something we do that often. I really believe my friend would enjoy seeing her.
Cons: I feel bad for the twin who is going to be left behind...
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WIBU to only take one twin with me?
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LivingOnTheDancefloor · 01/09/2016 11:18
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