I'm not sure where I'm going wth this but I think being a shy baby or child is largely seen as a bad thing and it gets on my nerves.
My eldest is very sociable, has never been shy, will talk to anyone, everyone thinks this is great and wonderful and says it must be because he went to nursery and so on.
My youngest so far seems a bit shy, takes a while to get used to new people, bit more high needs I suppose. Certain people seem to think this is less desirable and somehow my fault. It's because he hasn't been left with lots of different people and is spoilt. Certain family members seem disappointed when he doesn't perform with their friends because he doesn't know them. I should apparently be forcing him into situations to get him out of his shyness and it will do him good.
What people don't seem to realise is I've treated them exactly the same and have only adapted my parenting to meet their needs.
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CedricSydneySneer · 30/08/2016 15:34
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