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nappyaddict Thu 01-Feb-07 02:27:39

here's the story ...

a couple live with 2 friends. one night they decide to g out but gf can't afford it. bf still wants to go, bearing in mind it is the first chance of having the house to themselves in ages. at last minute bf offers to pay for gf knowing she isn't ready to go.

should bf have gone out and should gf have been mad for him doing so?
should bf have paid for gf?

LoveMyGirls Thu 01-Feb-07 07:06:10

If she wanted to go he should have paid, if he couldn't afford to pay or she didn't want to go he should have stayed in with her. simple.

LoveMyGirls Thu 01-Feb-07 07:09:53

If i was the gf i would have told him long before he got ready that if he was def going i expected him to take me with him, i'd be mightily pissed off if he left me in on my own unless i really fancy an evening in on my own. If he had offered last minute to pay for me i'd have made him wait while i got ready.

But then i'm in a relationship where we share what money we do have (not alot!) so it would also be up to me wether he went out because he would ask if he thought we could afford it.........

elodie2000 Fri 14-Apr-17 22:20:50

BF should have waited for GF to get ready. Why did he only offer to pay at last minute? To ease his conscience for being an arse & not offering to pay when the night out was first mentioned?
Selfish pig.

elodie2000 Fri 14-Apr-17 22:22:34

ZOMBIE!!!!!! Where did this thread come from?! Sorry!! angryblush

SorrelSoup Fri 14-Apr-17 22:22:44

How random, this is over ten years old.

0hCrepe Fri 14-Apr-17 22:25:34

Gf is pissed off bf chose to go out rather than night in. Gf should go out if she wants but accept this is what bf wants to do.

0hCrepe Fri 14-Apr-17 22:26:10


WorraLiberty Fri 14-Apr-17 22:28:07

They're probably living in a retirement home now

Arguing over who should pay for the bingo grin

Ameliablue Fri 14-Apr-17 22:42:50

There is no right or wrong here. Is up to the bf what he wants to do and the shouldn't be an obligation for him to pay for gf if they have separate finances.

SorrelSoup Fri 14-Apr-17 22:43:31


elodie2000 Fri 14-Apr-17 22:44:04

I'm on my phone and pressed 'last page' whilst looking through threads! Took me 10 bloody years of AIBU

I hope OP sorted it out in the end Haha!!
grin grin grin

TalkingofMichaelAngel0 Fri 14-Apr-17 22:47:27

Ooo i now want to search the op to see, reader, did she marry him?

elodie2000 Fri 14-Apr-17 22:55:24

Haha! He did sound like a catch didn't he?! hmm


AdneyOnPeas Sat 15-Apr-17 06:46:41

2007? grin zombie alert...

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