I'm your daddy

[Boundaries]

I have n/c for this.

AIBU to think that an adult man saying "I'm your daddy/who's your daddy/tell my I'm your daddy" during sex is just downright weird?

[Heathen4Hire]

Weird. YAnbu.

[Trifleorbust]

Seriously weird.

[MindSweeper]

It's weird to me and a bit sick but I suppose some people have different fetishes than I have.

[flanjabelle]

Yanbu at all. It's gross. I would have serious concerns about someone who wanted to role play being my 'daddy' blergh.

[FlappyRose]

Really creepy

[JacquesHammer]

As part of a consenting role play between two adults - fine.

Random outburst during sex - weird.

[PotatoBread]

Yes, weird and certainly not for me.

[Redglitter]

Just so wrong

[spaghettithrower]

Weird.
LTB
Run a mile

[MitzyLeFrouf]

Bleurgh.

MAJOR turn-off.

[LikeDylanInTheMovies]

Does this happen in real life? Surely no one does that?

I can't imagine it actually happening outside a skin flick.

[Pinkerbeller]

YADNBU. Just the thought of it makes my fanjo snap shut and dehumidify.

[PurpleDaisies]

That would be cause for dumping in my view.

An ex started calling me how "little girl". We split very shortly afterwards.

[Boundaries]

Dyan I can confirm it happens.

[MoreCoffeeNow]

Creepy. Wouldn't happen again. He'd be gone.

[MitzyLeFrouf]

This is why I don't understand couples who don't have sex before marriage. There are so many important sex things you need to find out about a person!

[Helmetbymidnight]

Someone on another thread said that clint Eastwood likes this?

Were you with clint Eastwood, op?

[acatcalledjohn]

I'd be weirded out.

It's commonly used in the US though, especially in popular culture.

Found this on it. First used in the 50s in a film it seems.

[PepsiPenguin]

I thought this was going to be about a Jeremy Kyle episode...

But in answer to the actual question, it's weird.

I'm guessing this is based upon a recent experience OP given the NC?

[Comejointhemurder]

It's not my cup of tea but I think in most cases it's not alluding to incest, but the 'I'm in charge' sort of thing a la Ray Winstone in Scum 'I'M the Daddy now!'

[timelytess]

It just made me laugh. One person I don't want to think about during sex is my dad. Can you imagine? "TimelyTess! What do you think you are doing with that man! You're a disgrace to the family! Go to your room!"
I'm 58.

[Helmetbymidnight]

Yeah, I think it's an American thing- which means- like baby showers- it will be coming here soon.

[TheLastRoseOfSummer]

I would shutdown immediately from this. I can't imagine even being able to carry on!

[TheoGB]

On an anecdotal basis (i.e. rubbish films and also quite a lot of stories from friends) this seems to be an American thing. Or at least quite a common occurrence with both American men and women.

Have always found it unfathomably creepy to be honest.

[Boundaries]

Helmet no, sadly. Although he is very old, so maybe not so good.

There will not be a repeat performance. Do I tell him it's weird?