I am currently stuck in the middle of my DH and DSIS and DM and finding it hard. I have 4 year old just about to start school and 6 month old. My DSIS had two children 6 and 4 another one on the way. My parents lucky enough to own house abroad which we have used I past along with rest of family. We are trying to sort out next years holidays we will be restricted to school holidays. My DSIS is favourited and parents provide a lot of childcare, next year they will be away for whole summer , as my DSIS will be on mat leave and won't need childcare. (I might but it's their prerogative). We were discussing looking at flights to go see parents next summer when DM pipes up that DSIS will be there the whole 6 weeks along with children, dbil will be for two weeks this makes trying to visit difficult as only 3 bedrooms not enough room. I tried speaking to DSIS who isn't sure of dates flying yet and waiting for cheap flights to come out. DH is angry as he thinks it's selfish as no one esle can affectively visit and neither of them have thought about my children seeing grandparents or us fitting holiday in school holiday time, effectively a cheaper holiday too. He also thinks it's weird that dbil won't see his children including 5 month old baby for a month. I am stuck I see both sides but also peed off that DSIS gets favourited again and my parents don't care if me and my children don't see them for 3 months. It's convinent that they provided childcare for my DSIS this whole summer holiday and stayed at home but next year bugger off. It's creating a lot of tension please help!
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