To think my ex's fiancée is demanding too much?

[Number20]

By saying that he shouldn't see me at all and that he should move house to be further away from me.

I know we've had our history but AIBU to think this is controlling behaviour?

[TheWitTank]

Have you got children together? How much contact do you have?

[sanctimomssuck]

Depends if there are kids involved or not.

Does she have good reason to be concerned about anything?

[AyeAmarok]

Do you have shared DC?

It is a bit extreme, but do you care? Do you also have a relationship with him (in the platonic sense)?

How do you know she's demanding this?

[JAN1996]

Well she's clearly threatened by you. What's happened for her to think that?

[Number20]

He said my name at an inopportune moment.

No children. Yet

[Crisscrosscranky]

He's not demanding you move away but he sounds a tad dramatic.

[AyeAmarok]

No children. Yet

Well if you're still having sex with him that might be why his fiancée has a problem with you

[ItWentInMyEye]

Oh dear. Was it her initial reaction to say these things?

[BillSykesDog]

Er, if your attitude is that you have no children 'yet' I can see exactly why she is keen to get away from you.

[MeAndMy3LovelyBoys]

Yet? Are you pregnant with his baby?
Or do you mean no children in general.

[rollonthesummer]

Do you still have a lot to do with your ex?

[ScarletOverkill]

How long has it been since you split?

[Bailey101]

It doesn't sound controlling at all, it sounds like someone who wants different things to you.

[TheWitTank]

Um, so you are still hoping to have kids with him?!

[Crisscrosscranky]

Sorry- I just retread post - I thought it said ex fiancé!

She is being a bit controlling but does she have reason? The fact you know he said your name presumably during sex says that you are still close?

[Number20]

TBH I think she's very controlling. They got engaged after one weekend away together. That can't be healthy can it?

[Number20]

TBH I think she's very controlling. They got engaged after one weekend away together. That can't be healthy can it?

[AppleMagic]

The fact that you know so much about their relationship suggests that maybe the boundaries between you are a bit blurred. I'm friends with all my ex's but I think it's important to back off a bit once they are in a new relationship. Her shouldn't really be confiding in you about how she feels about you.

[RumAppleGinger]

If you don't have children with your ex you don't need to have any contact with him.

[Crisscrosscranky]

P.S I do love a Friday night on MN for entertainment

[ToffeeForEveryone]

He's your ex and you don't have kids (yet?? wtf ) yet you are bothered what he does and where he lives? Usually people don't care when exes move on with their lives, that's the point of them being exes.

Sounds to me like the fiancee is picking up on something! Want him back op?

[MeAndMy3LovelyBoys]

What do you mean by "yet"?

[Vixxfacee]

No you sound like a problem.

[Bailey101]

The updates were posted while I was typing. I would want to move away form you too if you were planning children with my fiancé

[Number20]

His sister is my best friend. That's how I know this stuff. Truth be told I do still love him. Do you think there's a chance for us? If he's still saying my name then surely he still loves me.