Backstory 9 week old DD is sick, and we have spent the day hiding in bedroom which is the only warm room in the house. I also have not slept or had a cup of tea. DP makes me a cup of tea every day when he gets home, I have been counting down the minutes until this.
DP arrives home, hear two voices. Mother's voice screaches "Hello Kaos" throughout the house, I don't respond as the baby is asleep on me. DP pops head in for 2 seconds ascertains that DD and I are alive and is called away by DM. I await my tea.
30 minutes later I manage to slip DD in her own bed and emerge. DP is doing the dishes, he immediately informs me that he is not "allowed" to make tea he has to do the dishes. DM is stacking firewood. The oven is on, apparently DM has just put some pork on. DD wakes, I go tend.
An hour later I am hiding in bed with DD, DP just brought me a cup of tea, and every now and again I hear my name mentioned in their conversation.
AIBU to be pissed off.
She had no idea DD was sick, because she did not call ahead and mention she was coming she just showed up. She does this at least twice a week, but she always brings gifts so Im not meant to find it annoying as all hell in fact I have to play thankful that she is here for an hour as soon as DP gets home and my house is filling with things we don't need or want.
I don't want pork for dinner, in fact I have chicken in the fridge that really must be used today. I have home made KFC seasoning, and I had a bloody good excuse to pop to the supermarket for 5 minutes me time and a nice dessert. Now the chicken salad I had been looking forward to is no more, the chicken is going bad and no dessert or me time for me.
The dish the pork is in is one I avoid at all costs because it is a bitch to clean. She forced DP to wash a baking tray that I do not wash (use baking paper) because it is hollow and full of holes and ends in a kitchen covered in rusty water, she has the same one at home but forgot...
I still haven't had a chance to talk to DP about last night which included a hospital visit for DD. And all I want to do is cry about the fact that Im hiding alone in my bedroom waiting (an hour and a half so far) for her to leave so I can have my house back.
So AIBU to be this upset by what is in short her showing up with firewood and dinner then cleaning my kitchen (or forcing DP to at least).
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Is it me? Mother issues
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KaosReigns · 26/08/2016 06:31
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