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Aibu to feel a bit upset about this

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gillys Fri 26-Aug-16 00:51:56

Me & dh just had sex. He came all over my chest, then got up to go to the bathroom. I laid on the bed waiting for him to bring some loo roll back so I can mop up. Then I hear the shower running, so i call out to him but he didn't hear. So I get up, trying to stop stuff dripping everywhere. I go in to the bathroom & he's in the shower, so I said: I've been waiting for you to bring me something to wipe up with. He said do you want to get in here after me ? No, that's not the point, you've sorted yourself out & just left me.
I feel a bit used tbh and he makes me feel like I'm dirty.
Went back to bed quietly fuming, when he came back & I told him this, he sighed heavily & said through gritted teeth, is that all you've got to worry about ?
He has now gone to sleep & I'm downstairs writing this.
Would you feel pissed off ?

JellyBelli Fri 26-Aug-16 00:53:49

Yes I fucking would.
And him acting the martyr would be the icing on the cake,.

Who the actual fuck does he think you are? A porn mag?

Spring2016 Fri 26-Aug-16 00:55:40

Next time put his pillowcase to good use.

GiddyOnZackHunt Fri 26-Aug-16 00:58:59

Eurgh. You should have rolled over on to his side to soak the worst off.
Yanbu. I'd feel a bit like a discarded sock...

TheWitTank Fri 26-Aug-16 00:59:53

Yes to the above - chest first roll onto his pillow.

bumsexatthebingo Fri 26-Aug-16 01:01:01

Next time use his pillowcase.

bumsexatthebingo Fri 26-Aug-16 01:01:50

Haha X-posted as was reading the op to my dh. Pillowcase seems to be the sensible choice!

Crunchymum Fri 26-Aug-16 01:10:40

So instead of getting yourself cleaned up you posted here?


bumsexatthebingo Fri 26-Aug-16 01:11:48

I'm assuming at least a quick wipe has taken place and the op isn't just dripping cum onto her laptop!

RepentAtLeisure Fri 26-Aug-16 01:44:45

They were his bodily fluids to clean up, what a twat to just leave you there. Was it genuine oversight do you think, or is he a passive-aggressive person in general?

TheDowagerCuntess Fri 26-Aug-16 01:48:24

Is this the first time he's done this, or does he have form?

hazeimcgee Fri 26-Aug-16 01:55:18

His pillowcase definately. I'd be well p'd off

Icallbullshit3 Fri 26-Aug-16 01:57:04

If my OH did that then it would probably be the last time we ever had sex to be honest. Especially if I got that response after.

Lollyp333 Fri 26-Aug-16 02:07:41

Horrible arsehole! Wipe his 'issue' on his fave clothes. No wonder you feel used, I'd be furious but sadly you seem to be stuck with him

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