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My tea is cold, is it my fault for leaving it on my desk and forgeting to drink it?

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oliveoil Wed 31-Jan-07 11:38:55

I don't see why it should be.

AIBU?

colditz Wed 31-Jan-07 11:40:17

No. Leave him.

WideWebWitch Wed 31-Jan-07 11:40:25

God, how awful, I do understand, lots of sympathy. It isn't your fault, of course not. That damn tea cup, how dare it? Just insane and unfair.

southeastastra Wed 31-Jan-07 11:40:49

{{{{hugs}}}}}}}}}}}

oliveoil Wed 31-Jan-07 11:41:28

thanks

it helps that someone cares

sandyballs Wed 31-Jan-07 11:41:56

Completely your fault, and you are being unreasonable. You're not a SAHM with rowdy toddlers at your feet, you're at work

oliveoil Wed 31-Jan-07 11:43:09

how dare you make this SAHM v WOHM, that is just typical

crystalpony Wed 31-Jan-07 11:44:11

Poor you, I've never been in this situation, thankfully, as I always drink my tea in time but I really feel for you. Be strong and don't let it put you off boiling up that kettle again, plenty more teas in the pot

FluffyMummy123 Wed 31-Jan-07 11:44:21

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Saturn74 Wed 31-Jan-07 11:45:19

I think you need to learn how to face up to your responsibilities.
Have you considered counselling?
You need to start considering the needs of the cup of tea alongside your own needs, IMO.

oliveoil Wed 31-Jan-07 11:46:38

it is now very cold

do I throw it away or look at it in disgust?

I think I may have to go home sick

motherinferior Wed 31-Jan-07 11:46:59

You'd feel differently if you'd had a home birth, you know.

sorkycake Wed 31-Jan-07 11:47:29

Surely there's someone responsible for this who owes you compensation for your unnecessary suffering?

sorkycake Wed 31-Jan-07 11:48:16

Surely there's someone responsible for this who owes you compensation for your unnecessary suffering?

jampot Wed 31-Jan-07 11:48:51

these should be able to help you but you'll have to pretend the tea was hot and the desk fell apart and you were badly scalded.

sorkycake Wed 31-Jan-07 11:51:09

I would recommend going with a celebrity endorsed compensation firm, sooo much more believable.

oliveoil Wed 31-Jan-07 11:51:14

I blame dh, is he having an affair with the PG Monkey (or the fat bloke)?

Skribble Wed 31-Jan-07 11:52:05

Bung him in the micro for a minute and see if you can get back to speaking terms at least.

crystalpony Wed 31-Jan-07 11:53:10

Who wouldn't want an affair with PG monkey? He's adorable!!

sorkycake Wed 31-Jan-07 11:54:23

Strap him to the front of a LD truck to see if he's really sorry.

piglit Wed 31-Jan-07 11:55:05

A friend of mine went through this pretty recently. She's still struggling to come to terms with it but she said that the cold tea support line was a big help for her.

HTH. {{{{{{{{{{{{{{hugs}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}

JillybeansNW Wed 31-Jan-07 14:29:11

Well I don't think it matters that it is cold as it was made with formula (yuk), had it been made with far superior Breast Milk then it really really would be a complete tragedy!

JillJ72 Wed 31-Jan-07 15:15:14

I'm sorry to read that your cup of tea is exhibiting unreasonable behaviour in not considering your needs and the many tedious interruptions you must have had to endure before you could reach for said cup of tea.

Naughty cup of tea. Go and sit on the chair in the corner, and don't come back until you're sorry.

nailpolish Wed 31-Jan-07 15:19:25

olive, its spelt T' Pau , btw

Porpoise Wed 31-Jan-07 15:22:21

Well, I've said it before and I'll say it again: that cup of tea needs a strict routine.
Or you'll end up being a martyr to it all your life

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