Brief history.....
I'm 30 years old and lived in London for the majority of my 20's Young free and pretty much single. I'm originally from Wales and moved back at 29 following a career decision and if I'm honest, lack of other options. I happened to meet an amazing man who has 2 children. Never ever wanted step children but here I am......11months later living with said amazing man and children and not quite believing my luck.
We on the whole are very very happy. We share 50/50 custody of the kids and I am crazy about him. I enjoy my new job but have taken a MASSIVE pay cut. It doesn't really matter as the cost of living plus his wage means we get by quite happily how we are.
I suppose my AIBU is........
Am I a bad person to have finally found someone I love and want to spend my life with but secretly miss my old life? The life in where I could do what I wanted when I wanted.....spend what I wanted on what I wanted.....have time to spare with whatever I wanted to spare it on....and just be young free and careless again...?
Does anyone feel the same?
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AIBU?
To just wish I had my old life back?
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Thebean123 · 25/08/2016 01:01
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