And to be even more annoyed that she told him that behind my back?
Said friend is married but has had affairs in the past with guys who are attached whilst on a 'break' with her man.
I have broken off the friendship for various reasons, namely that she is needy an I don't quite trust her but we have always managed to re-establish contact.
Anyway, been with bf for ages. He's lovely and I couldn't be happier. He is also very open, friendly and will make friends with anyone. I'm more reserved but I love this openness about him.
One day bf and I bumped into said friend and went to pub for a drink. They got on really well but I felt uneasy and a bit 'invisible'. He acted as he normally does open and friendly but she totally ignored me and I was pissed off about this. I felt she was a bit too flirty for my liking.
Anyway, queue a few months down the line and she friend requests him on facebook. He has a lot of female friends and normally I have no problems at all. He is friends with other female mates of mine on fb no problems.
I decided to talk to her about the fact that I felt she was flirty with my man at the pub. Then HE received a message from her saying that she's sorry if we got the wrong impression of her intentions. She was also sorry that I was so jealous. She thinks we are great together and could we all meet up for a couples dinner.
However, she did also text him that she felt a connection with him due to their musical tastes and could he play the guitar for her band.
I am well aware that I am probably overreacting but aibu to think she shouldn't be telling my bloke that she has a connection with him and that she should have texted me first to build bridges and not me etc?
At the same time I feel guilty for being jealous as it's a horrid, detructive emotion. Or should I trust my uneasy gut instinct? He has blocked her etc.
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malificent7 · 23/08/2016 07:40
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