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To post here for traffic...I think Ive found my brothers dad

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Beeswax2017 Mon 22-Aug-16 12:38:52

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TheSilverChair Mon 22-Aug-16 12:44:32

It's possible that the man your DM was married to isn't the father of your DB. If he was I cannot understand why the documents say there were no children.

Jackie0 Mon 22-Aug-16 12:49:54

You have to tell him and hecan do whatever he decides.
I'd very very hurt to discover a sibling had info like this and didn't tell me.

Piniatapearl Mon 22-Aug-16 12:54:13

Did your mother never tell him his dad's name? A bit odd if she didn't and if she did it wouldn't have been to hard for him to find him himself. Are you sure your brother wants to find his dad?

I would have a chat with him and let him know what you found. Then it's up to him what he does with the information.

Jessbow Mon 22-Aug-16 13:05:47

Its a big assumption that your mothers first husband is the father of your brother, even if he is named on your brother birth Cert, I wouldn't assume he is.

A divorce quite often follows an affair, where a child is conceived outside of the marriage and the husband thinks ''I can do this, I can forgive her' and he finds he can't.

Really, if your brother has shown no interest, leave it alone

Beeswax2017 Mon 22-Aug-16 13:22:13

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