Hi,
DS has been having a few problems, he is 11. DW is refusing to even consider my thinking, and is saying that I'm just trying to justify his lying.
About a week before school ended, DS came to us about a boy who was saying nasty things to him - telling him to kill himself, etc. we obviously went up to the school, asked to speak to his teacher, but she claimed there wasn't even a boy in their class with the name he had given. We spoke to DS again, asking if he was in a different year, he said no and that he sits next to him at school. He isn't 5, he is 11, I think it would be really bizarre for him to keep this going, even though we had been to school. We wasn't sure what else to do, but DS went back into school and had been rude to his teacher about not punishing this boy, he then threw a chair and was crying. He was removed from the classroom and I was called. DW has been telling him to 'snap out of it', 'act his age' and 'grow up'. Which has not helped at all, DS has now been very reluctant to even speak to us about this. I took him to the GP, to which he sarcastically said 'yep, I'm just making it all up' to the doctor, who then laughed and said about how we have a suborn one here... I did not believe DS when he said that, he was obviously unhappy and it felt like he only said that because of the way he has been shut down. He is noticeably unhappy/depressed. Sits in his room, doesn't want to do anything. Every time I ask him, he always comes out with the sarcastic "it's all lies" and "I'm obviously a liar". I'm worried about him.
I'm just wondering if maybe he is seeing things that aren't there, does this sound like it may be possible? He just doesn't come across like he is making it up, he has never been the type of child to lie, and he is a very smart kid, it would be weird for him to not process the fact that we would obviously tell the teacher of the name of this child.
Any advice? Thanks
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Do you think our DS is seeing things, or just purposely lying?
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DudleyE · 19/08/2016 17:00
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