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To just leave her?

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MyBreadIsEggy Thu 18-Aug-16 12:54:17

My 15 month old is a really good sleeper.
On a normal day, she wakes at 7am, naps from 11:30-1/1:30, then is asleep for the night by 7pm and sleeps through until 7am most nights.
But the last couple of days, she's been going down for her nap at 11:30 and waking after only an hour - which is clearly not enough because by the time 4pm rolls around, she's knackered. She doesn't cry, but chats to herself and has a little bounce around. AIBU to just leave her in her cot until 1 as long as she stays happily chatting away and doesn't become upset?
I've seen people say to other mums netters who's kids are nap-avoiders, that quiet time in their cot is almost as good as a nap?
Feel a little bit weird about leaving her upstairs while she's awake, even though she seems quite happy!

sooperdooper Thu 18-Aug-16 12:56:48

If she's not upset I think it's fine, and surely a good thing she's so content on her own for a little while

MyBreadIsEggy Thu 18-Aug-16 12:58:23

She's still laying down (can see her on the video monitor), she just chatting to herself! I'm going up to get her now, but sea been awake for about 25 mins!
I feel a bit mean leaving her up there!

Sparklesilverglitter Thu 18-Aug-16 12:58:53

If she's happy why not

KondosSecretJunkRoom Thu 18-Aug-16 13:00:26

I think quiet time in the cot is as good as a nap for the mum grin

If she's content to sit in her cot quietly then give it a go and see if she is able to go longer without getting tired but I wouldn't hold my breath (I might cross my fingers though)

Niloufes Thu 18-Aug-16 13:06:53

If she's happy there is no issue.

PotOfYoghurt Thu 18-Aug-16 13:08:09

Why don't you try putting her down later so she sleeps 1-3 etc?

MyBreadIsEggy Thu 18-Aug-16 13:10:45

I'm going to try putting her down later tomorrow I think smile
She's only just dropped to one nap a few weeks ago, so was struggling to stay awake until 11:30 once her morning nap stopped, but now I think she's adjusted and could go longer smile might try 12:30 tomorrow

ShtoppenDerFloppen Thu 18-Aug-16 13:26:31

I found with my children that moving to one nap in the afternoon happened between 15 and 18 months. It didn't happen overnight, but once a new nap schedule was established, evening/night sleep improved dramatically.

You are definitely on the right path...

Candlefairy101 Thu 18-Aug-16 13:29:50

If you've always responded to her in the past when she called then in the future she will always tell you when she's unhappy.

I would say it's lovely that she's happy to just play on her own for a bit, she may enjoy a little break away aswell as mum smile

MyBreadIsEggy Thu 18-Aug-16 13:34:27

I she heard me go up the stairs and to the toilet before I went in her room and changed from just general chatter to "Mama, mama, mama" grin so she obviously knew I was going to get her. And when I walked in, she stood up, waved and said "HI!!" grin
I'm pretty sure she's not traumatised by 25 mins by herself 👌🏻

MrsMozart Thu 18-Aug-16 13:48:13

I think it's important for everyone to learn to be on one's own, so the more gently it can be done the better, which this sounds perfect for.

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