Little bit of background: I started my first job about eight months ago-it's an intense and emotional job. Another colleague who is quite a bit older than me and more experienced supported me so much during the beginning. We began to talk outside of work, including very personal topics such as past relationships, life goals and even religion, practically every day and late into the night. We went for drinks and dinner both individually and as part of our work group. I'm not such an avid user of Facebook so we became fb friends a few months after meeting. A few days after accepting him, he's tagged in a lovey photo with his pretty girlfriend which he's never mentioned (even 8 months later). People at work joke about us "going out" etc and when I told them they were shocked. Why did he not tell me? The things he said and the way he behaved made me feel there was a chance of something happening. I feel like a fool and humiliated...I'm starting to love my job but this makes me feel so stupid and I'm starting to feel quite angry with him. Am I being too sensitive and was he just being nice? Or is his behaviour a bit shady?
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To feel like a fool because of my colleague's behaviour
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NinaBiina · 14/08/2016 14:04
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