Hi,
I'm currently 27 weeks pregnant with twins and we've just received a wedding invite to DH's best friend's wedding which will be 5 weeks after our planned delivery date. The wedding will be held 3.5 hours away from where we live, we will be first time parents to our twins, delivery is likely to be c-section and I'm hoping to EBF.
The bride and groom have said that our LOs will be more than welcome and DH is really keen for us to all attend together. However I have so many worries and the thought of going is getting me really worked up at the moment.
I'm mainly concerned about
- Taking such tiny babies out to a large gathering of (mostly) strangers before their immunisations.
- We'll still be getting to grips with being new parents.
- The fact that I think I'll spend most of my time in another room BFing rather than attending the wedding anyway.
- Being horribly sleep deprived at that point.
- Potentially still being uncomfortable after a c-section.
- Not really feeling up to getting dressed up and looking presentable by then.
- Not having home comforts to escape to for 2 nights.
- Other people wanting to hold/touch our newborns.
DH is so much more laid back than me and thinks I'm being too negative, whereas I think I'm just being realistic. I'm happy for him to go on his own and enjoy himself (my parents will come and stay with me for company) but our inability to agree over this is causing arguements between us and making me feel completely stressed out.
AIBU? What would you do?