Recently when no one was at home my MIL let herself into our house.
When she was in our house she took some of our washing. Ironed and folded lots of clothes and completely rearranged three rooms in our house.
AIBU to have had a total meltdown over this? I can maybe see where she thought she was being helpful and TBH if she thought I was struggling with washing I wouldn't have been that annoyed about her doing a load of towels or something.
But I didn't have lots of washing piled up ( just a few random odd bits at bottom of hamper) and my house was clean and tidy ( all of downstairs, main bathroom and bedroom tidy) just obviously not to her standard?!
I feel humiliated that she'll be telling the rest of her family that she had to do this and that I'm not a good enough house keeper.
I am also angry that she rooted through and moved my personal things ( underwear, toiletries etc.)
DH was annoyed too, I told him to say to his parents but he won't as he doesn't want to get into arguements. He did take our key back though when he was at their house yesterday ( though he didn't tell them)
What would you do? Say something to her? Usually we get on very well but DH and I are quite private and I really feel like she has crossed a line.
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MrsGsnow18 · 09/08/2016 12:22
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