DD (5) has never met her biological father and as far as she is aware her dad is my ex husband who has been around since mid way through the pregnancy.
Recently I received a message from her biological father's (now ex) girlfriend informing me that she has had a baby and after messaging back and forth for a couple of months we have decided we want them to meet- I wouldn't introduce them as brother and sister at first but as if me and his mum are friends. The biological father would not be involved at all.
I talked this through with my ex husband and he is dead against them meeting, mainly I think because he doesn't want her finding out he isn't her biological father (although obviously she would find out at some point anyway). We can't come to an agreement after discussing it multiple times.
Am I being unreasonable to want her to grow up around her brother? I've never met my biological father and know that I have a few siblings that I've never met and it's something that's really bothered me from a young age so I don't want DD to feel that way. I also worry that she'll resent me when she eventually finds out I could have taken her to meet her brother and decided against it.
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To want DD to meet her half brother?
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FatAmy · 08/08/2016 09:13
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