Honestly had my fill of it today from family members, the subtle, snide comments about what they do with their apparently 'perfect' children, the uninvited 'advice' about how to deal with our toddler, ongoing passive aggressive comments about what we say or do with our children. I spent the whole day smiling and nodding and refusing to be drawn in but inside was raging. I have been given 'advice' on the words I use, the tone I use, the nicknames I call my children (at 3 and 6 they are too old for nicknames), what rules I have (too harsh), what I let them get away with (ironically too much given the previous comment), how I deal with problems or arguments, potty training, eating, smiling, eye contact, physical contact (apparently I'm too tactile) to name but a few... You'd think I have horrors when actually I have two perfectly lovely dc's who can be a handful but 99% of the time are very polite, well mannered and well behaved children! Can anyone make me feel any better with any advice on how to handle in the future or any experiences they have had?
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If you want my advice I would......NO I BLOODY DON'T WANT IT! Please come and share your 'smug parenting' experiences
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Fingle · 06/08/2016 15:58
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