Hello,
Long time lurker, first time poster.
I am a 32 years old and I have a DS and DP (to be DH in a year).
I have recently started watching porn regularly. I used to watch it a bit when I was younger, but only recently has it been more frequent.
Basically, I like threesome porn and 'real' porn, e.g proper people having sex, and my DP seems to have an issue with it.
He goes to play football and see his friends quite frequently (a couple of nights a week) and during that time, if I don't have friends round, I will quite often have a bit of 'me' time with my toys and a bit of porn.
I am not 'obvious' about it, but when it comes up in conversation I don't hide the fact I watch porn and/or masturbate.
He seems to get pretty shirty about it and doesn't understand why I find it hot. He says I wouldn't like it if on the nights I play squash, he sat at home masturbating over other girls. Tbh, I couldn't give a shit. It isn't cheating (imo), but I perfectly understand I am not the only female he is ever going to find attractive ever again. Nor is he the last man I will ever think is 'hot'. The only time I would care is if our sex life dried up.
Also, one more AIBU question.... I am a very independant woman and whilst I agree a relationship certain things need to be shared (some money, decisions, assets etc), I believe my phone is just that... 'mine'.
He quite often goes on my phone without asking me. Or will look at a text if it goes off and it is near him.
I just think, wtf, get off, that is my phone! My private communications unless I plan to share it with you. Just because he is my partner, does that mean I have no privacy? I have no intention of looking at his phone. He then tells me I am acting suspicious.... AIBU?
p.s - sorry for the long post.
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equinox32 · 03/08/2016 20:17
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