Just that really.
For as long as I can remember my DM has been very unpredictable. Fine one minute and suddenly moody the next. As a child and teenager I felt I was constantly walking on egg shells around her as you never knew what you were going to get, but when she was in one of her moods you knew about it. She didn't even really need to say anything either, it would be one word answer to questions usually in a snappy tone, loud long sighs, cupboards and doors slammed etc.
She would never give a reason either and if you asked what was wrong you'd be told 'nothing' but clearly there was something but we were supposed to be mind readers abbot what it was. Then a few hours later shed be back to normal with no explanation, until the next bloody time.
This has turned me into the biggest people pleaser ever, and I fully blame my DM for that. Her behaviour has continued into my adulthood, I work with kids and wouldnt tolerate it from a child, so why should I take it from her. My response now is to be really, really cheerful and upbeat to her when she's like this. I suspect it probably makes things worse and it's achallenge because I just want to tell her to geta grip, everyone has bad days and we have to deal with it.
Honestly it drives me crackers!
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To want to tell my moody mother to get grip and that its not anyone elses fault if she's had a shit day.
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Runny · 03/08/2016 13:21
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