I know how this is going to sound to some but I still need advice all the same so here goes:
DH gran died 2 weeks ago and her funeral is next Tuesday. She was 91 just died in her sleep. I met her a few times and she was a lovely lady. It's a sad loss and I've been supportive to my husband who is really upset over it.
It's a busy time at the office and that week I am needed for some high level support while our a Finance Director is on leave. I've swapped my day off to be able to attend the funeral but it wasn't easy because that day I am needed to go to a meeting and I really should be there but never mind. It can't be reschedule either.
The funeral is in Newcastle and I'm in Truro so it is a bit of a treck. I do not get on well with DH family and I am dreading having to spend a night with some of them and then the actual day of the funeral. There's always tension between us and something always occurs whether it be a snide remark regarding DS (they think they are the highlight of his life) or some condescending comment or other.
Also my DH wants to take our son who is just 1 to the funeral which I think will be a nightmare. I mean why would he need to go?
Would I be unreasonable to not got and keep DS here, or say DS can go and I stay here alone.
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Pixienott0005 · 31/07/2016 18:27
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